ETHOS (Part 12): Presence | Jake Haber
Description
In this soul-stirring message from our ETHOS series, we dive deep into the transformative power of presence—not as a trendy concept, but as the foundation of a full, grounded, and values-driven life. Drawing on stories, humor, and personal reflections, we challenge the cultural pull toward distraction and future-chasing, offering a counterintuitive invitation: that real freedom, depth, and connection arise when we stop trying to control everything and simply show up—right here, right now.
Whether it’s discomfort, uncertainty, or even mundane moments like being stuck in traffic, this message offers a radical reframe: presence isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s the key to a life well-lived, to genuine relationships, and to spiritual depth.
This is a reminder to stop postponing your aliveness for a “better” future and instead ask: What would it mean to be fully here—today, in this moment, as you are?
Quotes:
Krista Tippett:
“The spiritual life is not a separate compartment of life, but the deepening of presence in every part of it.”
Eckhart Tolle:
“The more you are focused on time—past and future—the more you miss the Now, the most precious thing there is.”
Thich Nhat Hanh:
“Life is available only in the present moment. If you abandon the present moment, you cannot live the moments of your daily life deeply.”
Michael A. Singer:
“Eventually you will see that the real cause of problems is not life itself. It’s the commotion the mind makes about life that really causes the problems.”
Alan Watts:
“No valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.”
Tara Brach:
“The biggest disease of our time is the disconnection from our bodies, from our own hearts. And the medicine is presence.”
Sigmund Freud:
“One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.”